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Love drugs could soon be a reality

An Oxford University academic has suggested that a new substance to help failing relationships could become commercially available in the next three to five years.

Imagine a world where, rather than working on our relationships the old-fashioned way, we just pop a pill and the spark is reignited (at least until it wears off and we need another fix).

Though this may sound like something straight out of Harry Potter, it could soon be a reality thanks to academics at Oxford University.

In fact, according to evolutionary anthropologist Dr Anna Machin who led the study, these new substances could be prescribed to struggling couples within as little as three years.

β€˜There is now enough known about brain chemistry that certain chemicals could be prescribed to enhance your abilities to find love or to increase the possibility that you will stay in love when it’s getting a bit tricky,’ she said at the Cheltenham Science Festival. β€˜They’re certainly on the horizon.’

Colloquially referred to as β€˜love drugs,’ these ethically-dubious compounds have been designed to stimulate producing the cocktail of potent molecules which flood our brains when we fall head-over-heels for someone, changing our thoughts, behaviours, and emotions.

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First, there’s oxytocin, the β€˜cuddle’ hormone that reduces our inhibitions, followed by dopamine, the β€˜reward’ hormone that makes us feel good, then serotonin, which makes us obsess over another person, and last but not least beta-endorphin, an opiate that makes us feel literally addicted to an individual.

All of which are being researched in the context of helping those who’ve hit a wall in their relationship without quite being ready to give up on their partner.

Not only this, but eventually it’s predicted that love drugs will be administered to anyone lacking confidence when dating. Think: sipping on a potion d’amour to alleviate the post-flirting jitters.

Love drugs aren’t, however, entirely revolutionary.

For decades, substances targeting the ick-riddled among us have technically already been available and those in favour of them have been tirelessly contending that it’s time to switch up our attitudes and explore the possibilities offered by breakthroughs in biomedicine and neuroscience.

Specifically MDMA which, despite being illegal, is increasingly being used alongside professionally guided therapy to treat couples seeking to induce feelings of closeness, warmth, and trust.

What is new are the signs they may hit the shelves by 2025, a notion that has many concerned about the questionable morals of medically prescribing romance.

β€˜We should definitely be wary of pharmaceutical companies seeking to β€˜pathologise’ relationships – perhaps inventing new relational disorders to diagnose people with so that their drugs can be prescribed and sold as β€œmedicine”,’ stresses Dr Brian Earp, co-author ofΒ Love Drugs: The Chemical Future of Relationships.

β€˜Couples should not think that love drugs will work like magic to solve their problems. They should not be pursued in a misguided attempt at a β€˜quick fix’ for fading intimacy or other relationship woes.’

Essentially, concern lies in how if you take a drug that all of a sudden makes you feel much closer to someone than you did five minutes ago, there’s a risk that it’s the drug doing the work as opposed to a re-established compatibility between you and the other person.

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Yet while this is of course valid, many argue that taking a drug to induce or maintain love is no different to taking an antidepressant, because both supplement neurochemicals that naturally exist in our bodies.

In addition, when used with good intentions, they aren’t meant to bewitch your crush into liking you back, but are simply a means of bolstering pre-existing relationships.

For this reason, though it’s still essential we tread with caution and address the ethical questions that arise from marketing a substance that can chemically alter our moods, why shouldn’t we at least consider the possibility of a pill that boosts our loving capabilities?

β€˜There are serious risks,’ adds Dr Earp. β€˜But there are also major potential benefits. In any case, the train has left the station: people are already using so-called β€˜recreational’ drugs to explore altered states of consciousness with their partners; and many drugs that are used for medicine are already affecting our romantic and other relationships, albeit in ways that are not systematically studied.’

β€˜As love drugs already exist, are being used, and will continue to be used in the future β€” whether legally or otherwise β€” we at least need to be studying the interpersonal effects of drugs much more seriously, to avoid the harms they can cause, while also exploring ethical frameworks for directing their potentially positive effects to better ends.’

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