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You might also be suffering from vicarious trauma

As we encounter countless images and news of people in distress, navigating our emotions is becoming increasingly difficult.

Remember those stories we heard as kids that made the world seem like nothing but sunshine and happiness?

Growing up, we all come to realize that life isn’t a fairy tale. Still, most of us never imagined the extent of agony we’d encounter.

With just a click, we gained access to almost every corner of the world, and along with it, a darker side we hadn’t anticipated.

Now, even answering a simple question like, ‘How are you?’ feels complicated as we’re bombarded daily with images of war, violence, poverty, and, unfortunately, much more.

Can we claim to be genuinely content or happy when so much horror is happening? On the other hand, wouldn’t it be selfish to say we don’t feel okay while others are actually suffering?

If you’ve been finding it hard to navigate your emotions, you might be experiencing vicarious trauma — a phenomenon many of us are going through in modern life.

 

What is vicarious trauma?

According to Dhruti Shah’s interview with Laurie Anne Pearlman for The Guardian, Pearlman observes a shift in worldview among therapists due to their cumulative exposure to clients’ stories.

In response to this awareness, clinical psychologists Lisa McCann and Laurie Anne Pearlman coined the term ‘vicarious trauma’ in 1990.

This concept essentially refers to a shift in emotions and thoughts resulting from repeated exposure to distressing situations or information.

At that time, it was used exclusively for therapists working closely with trauma survivors.

Over time, it has expanded to include journalists, legal professionals, social workers, and eventually all of us – likely because technology now allows us to connect directly and hear incidents firsthand, without the filter of a third party.

Dr. Pam Resden noted at the 2015 Annual Conference of the British Psychological Society that social media shares unedited, horrific details as they are.

In doing so, people are more likely to be affected by the events, as they are not protected by the ‘warning’ symbols or edits typical of traditional media.

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Are you struggling with vicarious trauma?

Journalist Dhruti Shah summarizes her situation with vicarious trauma by saying her dream job ended up affecting her mental health. She lost weight due to stress and felt lonely and guilty.

For me, it’s been a recurring feeling of unease, as I couldn’t make a meaningful difference on my own, which led to feelings of pessimism, anger, fear, and guilt.

Even so, the effects of vicarious trauma manifest differently in each person, such as nightmares, social withdrawal, and negative coping mechanisms. Still, one thing remains true: it changes your worldview permanently.

This is how it differs from secondary trauma, even though both result from indirect experiences.

Secondary trauma might occur suddenly upon hearing a single narrative, whereas vicarious trauma involves a change in emotions and thoughts from being exposed to multiple stories over time.


How to cope with it

A healthcare professional named Farzana wrote to The Guardian that it was difficult for her to take a break during work, even for lunch. Still, community care helped restore her nervous system.

According to the British Medical Association, it’s important to enhance self-awareness in order to recognize signs of stress.

That said, it’s essential to set realistic expectations for your responsibilities and what you can accomplish in relation to the problem.

Regular breaks are essential, especially for therapists, journalists, or activists working closely with trauma survivors. For those who struggle to pause, Amnesty International suggests setting alarms as reminders.

Since peer support is important, remember that it’s okay to reach out for help from a professional.

In the words of Mary Oliver’s poem, allow yourself to embrace joy. Finding joy, despite all the challenges, is essential for self-care and resilience.

So, let me ask you: How are you?

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