‘I’m frustrated with how inefficient the workplace is. Should I just change my expectations?’
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I think there are two things you can do.
Firstly, lean into the real world. Talk to people. They might be close friends, colleagues or acquaintances in your sector. Ask them about work. What’s going well? What’s challenging? How do they see things?
People love this. The opportunity to share what we really think with another human being is regrettably rare. (And I mean really share, not just post something that adds to the slop.)
You’ll discover that everyone faces challenges and disappointments at work, and that these are surprisingly similar across sectors, functions and stages of life.








