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Opinion – nobody can relate to TV’s mega-rich

Almost everywhere we look, TV and film are hell-bent on portraying characters with exorbitant amounts of wealth. I’m tired of it.

And Just Like That, the Sex and the City reboot, has had largely negative – if not heavily mixed – reviews since it premiered a few years ago. And for many viewers, its loss wouldn’t be that heartfelt were it not a symbolic ending to the beloved world of Carrie Bradshaw and co.

Having said that, since news broke of its demise and the subsequent premiere of the series finale, everyone who spent weeks hating on this bizarre and frankly terribly written (and poorly lit?) show has been emerging from the woodwork with emotional long-reads and op-eds about how devastated they are it’s all finally over.

Even as the self-proclaimed Sex and the City aficionado I know I am, these reactions have felt a little too sincere for my tastes. Too overtly emotional for a series that had left all the charm of the original episodes back in the early 2000s.

It’s not even that I hated the reboot. If anything, I felt so nonplussed about it that even a negative critique would be asking too much of me. So far the past few days, I’ve been trying to pinpoint why exactly I felt so emotionally detached from the same characters I watched voraciously in the original show.

That’s when I stumbled across Sophie Gilbert’s piece for The Atlantic, which bemoans the overwhelming display of opulent wealth on modern TV. From And Just Like That  to The White Lotus, it feels like almost every character we tune in to watch these days is exorbitantly wealthy – and thus entirely unrelatable.

And Just Like That has never been a particularly imaginative show with regard to women in midlife,’ writes Gilbert, ‘but there’s still something fundamentally off about seeing one of the canonical female characters of our era transformed into a Gilded Age archetype, worrying about a garden renovation and choosing back-ordered fabric for a chaise.’

The dissonance between this version of Carrie and the grungy, chain-smoking, frizzy haired girl we meet in episode one of Sex and the City is tangible. It also reflects a trend within popular culture that seems hellbent on force-feeding us a lifestyle that we’re growing ever more distant from in reality.

It’s no secret that the vast majority of us are suffering through a cost of living crisis, whilst watching genocide and war unravel in various places worldwide. Tuning in to watch a group of women stroll around with Birkin bags and bemoan the minutiae of their million dollar New York apartment buildings may once have felt like fitting escapism, but it now leaves a sour taste in even the most sentimentalist mouths.

It’s not just me and Gilbert who feel this way. Stuart Heritage recently unpacked the dominance of uber-rich characters for The Guardian, citing shows such as The Four Seasons and Mountainhead in what he dubs the ‘Selling Sunset-ification of television.’

‘When we’re confronted with such an unyielding parade of upscale comfort, the effect isn’t as aspirational as producers probably think. We aren’t left with a growling envy of how the other half lives; we’re instead left worrying that they wouldn’t know what real life was like if you bonked them over the head with a Poundland flipflop.’

Now I’m not saying that every piece of media we consume needs to reflect the realities of everyday life. Far from it, in fact. During times of economic, social and political unrest – and really, whenever we’re navigating the everyday doldrums of being a human – escapism into fantasy and fiction is vital.

But Heritage and Gilbert both speak to the issue with TV’s reliance on wealth: it’s often unnecessary, and therefore insulting.

‘These days, it seems, television has hit a point where every new show is set amidst the extremely financially comfortable,’ writes Emily J. Smith. ‘I’m not just talking about White Lotus and Succession, both of which are very pointed social commentaries on extravagant wealth. I’m talking about all the other new shoes, which are not necessarily supposed to be about wealth, but are nevertheless set against a backdrop of riches.’

Smith’s words remind me of a comment made by author Caroline O’Donoghue on her podcast Sentimental Garbage, the latest episode of which sees her dissecting the And Just Like That series with fellow writer Dolly Alderton.

O’Donoghue astutely points out why she felt the magic of the original series had faded into oblivion with the advent of the reboot: every problem faced by the three main characters is always ultimately related to something material, be it a bag, a pair of shoes, or an obscenely expensive coffee table.

That’s a far cry from the relatable, messy, complex issues that Sex and the City explored over six seasons in the late 90s. And while the show has aged like milk in certain areas, it was this unflinching and sex-positive depiction of women in their mid-thirties that made the show so ground-breaking at the time.

Besides the disillusion we might feel watching countless individuals parade their money around on television, these unrealistic depictions are also damaging for young viewers. After all, watching four middle-aged couples drop thousands of pounds on holidays four times a year without so much as blinking (a la Netflix’s The Four Seasons) might make us feel ashamed that our own families can’t do the same – or worse, expect that this kind of wealth awaits us without question.

The consequence of this rich-washing, as Smith highlights, is that it erases the nuance and important conversations that emerge around money – conversations that are fundamental for eroding the stigma around wealth disparity, classism, and broader socio-economic issues.

‘It’s notable that whereas content and conflict around money and day-jobs used to serve as points of audience connection, intimacy, and comedy gold, it’s now mostly avoided by new shows entirely.’

‘If I had it my way, money and work would be a sub-plot in everything because it is an unfortunate but essential part of our lives.’

That’s the real problem: television has stopped treating money as something worth contending with, and instead elevated it into a kind of background wallpaper. But money isn’t wallpaper. It’s the scaffolding of most of our lives, shaping our relationships and our freedoms.

Television doesn’t need to be a ledger, nor does it need to wallow in financial hardship to feel relevant. But it does need to remember that the lives worth watching – the messy, funny, sharp-edged ones – are lived somewhere between overdraft fees and pay rises.

When culture refuses to acknowledge that, what we’re left with are glossy, frictionless fantasies that don’t just alienate audiences but actively flatten our stories.

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