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Why are Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez’ eggs journey causing such a furore?

The US congresswoman is sharing her journey to freeze her eggs, and in doing so opening up conversation around the trade-offs professional women face. It’s also driving backlash from the right. 

Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez (or AOC as she’s often dubbed by the media) has become a major play for Democratic Socialists in the US.

After campaigning alongside Bernie Sanders and amassing a huge following amongst young voters on social media, AOC has gradually built a prominent profile across the country – fuelling speculation of her impending run for the presidency in 2028.

AOC is one of several politicians promising a different America in the wake of Trump, part of a socialist-leaning leftist group whose biggest success has arguably been the election of New York mayor Zohran Mamdani.

But while the policies of Congress members like AOC have always ruffled feathers on the right, her latest pursuit has little to do with politics. Ocasio-Cortez has taken to social media in recent weeks to share her journey with egg freezing. She’s said she hopes that by talking publicly about the issue she may help to destigmatise the trade-offs modern professional women face everyday. She’s also aware of the political risks posed by such online vulnerability.

‘Day One of freezing my eggs,’ AOC said on a recent Instagram reel. ‘I’m diving into the process.’ Over the course of several short videos she’s proceeded to take followers along with her to appointments and filmed her routine injections. ‘Don’t be weird about this,’ she says. ‘Even though I know all of you will be.’

The response has been – unsurprisingly – negative from the conservative left. But AOC’s openness has also attracted praise. Comments beneath her videos are littered with thanks from women who finally feel seen by a Congressional figure, regardless of personal politics.

‘I appreciate you being open about something as personal as the egg-freezing process,’ wrote one user. ‘Thank you for making the conversation relatable and shedding light on a struggle many women experience.’

AOC’s decision has sparked wild speculation about her dating life, with suggestions she’s broken up with long-term partner Riley Roberts. It’s also driven lots of moral handwringing from the right-wing media.

Right-wing commentator Matt Walsh called the decision ‘totally backwards and ridiculous’, arguing that Ocasio-Cortez should instead have children younger. Conservative podcaster Katie Miller, meanwhile, appeared to praise the decision while using it to make a broader argument that women should marry and have children earlier, rather than spend their ‘childbearing years climbing the career ladder’.

None of that has swayed her. As the youngest woman ever elected to Congress, AOC has said she had to ‘grow up in the public eye’, and that while she usually keeps her ‘private life quite private’, she said sharing her egg-freezing journey was a means of normalising the trials women face in a world that remains largely uneducated on the female body.

‘As women, in general, we are not taught about our bodies,’ AOC said. ‘We are not prepared for our own lives,’ from puberty to menopause. ‘I think we need to show more depictions of women having full lives in every context and every choice.’

For her, ultimately, it’s an empowering decision. ‘This is a choice that I’m making to feel more in control of my life.’

Of course, there is a tension in presenting egg freezing simply as an empowering act. The procedure is expensive and physically demanding, with no guarantee of a child. Most insurance policies in the US do not cover elective egg freezing or storage, and age remains an important factor in the likelihood that frozen eggs will eventually result in a viable pregnancy.

A recent UCLA study found that only around six per cent of women who freeze their eggs later return to use them.

The years in which many women are establishing themselves professionally can overlap almost perfectly with the years in which fertility begins to decline. This means many of us face an ultimatum as we approach our early thirties: pursue a career while opportunities are available, or prioritise having children while biology is on your side. Neither option is particularly fair.

Ocasio-Cortez has said that men seeking political office or professional advancement are not asked to make the same calculations about their future families. Her decision to make the process public does not remove those trade-offs. But t does is make visible a calculation that millions of women make privately, often alongside promotions, deadlines, relationships and ambitions.

When a woman as publicly ambitious as Ocasio-Cortez shows what it actually looks like to negotiate with time, biology and a career, she exposes something uncomfortable: the choice may be hers, but the circumstances surrounding it are not.

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