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One of my biggest frustrations as a careers advisor is when a student I’ve never met asks me to connect them to a vague category of person they think will be useful to them, for example…
“Hi, I’d liek you to connect me to alumni working in banking” (There’s nearly always a spelling mistake in these messages)
Why does this frustrate me, and why won’t I do it for them? There are three reasons.
If I don’t know them, I don’t understand their motivations and what they have to offer. I can’t pitch them to anybody.
‘Alumni working in banking’ doesn’t tell me anything. Retail banking, investment banking, commercial banking? In Europe, Asia, North America? On the client side, in operations, in the back office?
If this student isn’t motivated enough to meet with me, and hasn’t thought through what they want, there’s no way I’m going to waste other people’s time by putting them in touch.